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Let's begin imagining your 20...
Imagine 20 people you love to work with – they enjoy your style and skills just as you are now, without you needing to change or improve anything – and you enjoy them as well. Part of this work – as all work of "authentic business" – is to practice believing in the value of your skills and presence, and stepping more into your authentic service-oriented power. Those 20 people probably already in your life/network right now. Draw them forth by writing a heartfelt description of them... You're welcome to comment below as you tell us about them – anything you can tell us is great, their inner characteristics, outer (visible) demographics, their interests, and most importantly – why they like and trust you. And what they believe that you can support them with. No perfection needed here... just write what comes to you. You can always update it later – and likely will :) After writing your comment, turn around and comment on 2 others' descriptions, especially if you resonate or know someone who is exactly like that! :) Just because you reply to someone's comment doesn't mean that you'll get a spot as part of their 20 ;-) but later in this course, if there's still space, and it seems aligned for the time being, they might reach out to you with a gentle invitation to play :-)
They love that I offer interesting ways for them to heal, self-reflect, and discover more about themselves, particularly on how they can express more of their innate gifts and benefit others through their soulful + grounded work.
My 20 people are women who are living lives of Quiet Desperation. They have hit all milestones they should and checked all the checkboxes according to society. Yet, they feel unhappy, frustrated without knowing why. And with each day that passes, they question the meaning of their lives and achievements and wonder if they have done it all wrong, driving them more and more into Desperation. The shame of not knowing why kept them quiet because they felt they should have answers for it. They live with self-doubt and fear alot.
They are drawn to how I am showing up for them, and how I am living my life. Nothing fancy but very fulfilling. It gives them permission to make mistakes, to be playful and explore and most importantly to learn to trust themselves again.
They come to me because they trust me in holding space and vision of who they can become and to be a partner in that journey of theirs to feel whole again.