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Bingz Huang
@bingzhealinglight
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I love embracing Gentleness because it helps me feel safe to be myself on a daily basis, and to take new steps into what I feel called to do. 

My current ideal clients are Coaches who embrace personal growth while being gentle and kind with themselves. They love discovering more about their gifts a…


Active 11h ago Joined 8 Jun 2022 (GMT+08:00) Singapore
What if only a few people show up? 5:02
What if only a few people show up?

After setting up your registration and tracking systems in the last couple of lessons, a common thought might creep in: "What if hardly anyone registers? What if only one or two people actually show up live?" This is a normal feeling... but allow me to offer a perspective shift that might transform this anxiety into an opportunity. Every Session is Valuable Practice: Whether one person shows up to your live FTA webinar, or ten, or even zero initially, consider each time you prepare and offer your teaching as incredibly valuable: You are honing your craft: Every time you structure your thoughts, practice your delivery, and manage the technology, you get better. You are testing your material: You gain insights into what resonates, what's clear, and what might need adjustment, even just through the act of preparing and speaking it aloud. You are practicing presence: You build comfort and confidence in sharing your energy and knowledge in an online format. Trust the Process: Growth Happens Over Time Especially when you're starting out, or testing a new topic, attendance might be small. Please know that this is normal. If you keep launching FTAs consistently and continue practicing market discovery to choose topics your audience genuinely wants (as we covered in Modules 2 & 3), your attendance will likely grow over time. The key is persistence and relevance. An Inspiring Story of Dedication: To put this in perspective, I want to share a deeply moving story about service and dedication beyond numbers. It's a reflection by the spiritual teacher Adyashanti about his first teacher, Arvis Joen Justi: "When she first started to offer teachings at her house, she would sit down after preparing everything, but nobody would show up. Still she wrote a talk, set up her meditation room, and opened her house even single week, week after week. Sometimes, out of compassion, her husband would sit with her, but mostly she sat alone. She continued to do this for an entire year without a single person coming. That is dedication! What service to the dharma, the Buddhist teaching - not being in service to how many people appear, to numbers or normal measures of success, but to doing what she was called to do. After a year, one person came, and for the next year it was Arvis and that one person. As word slowly spread, more people arrived, until sometimes she would have fifteen or twenty people. Her dedication was a great teaching for me. It touched my heart because it spoke to what service is: the willingness to put ourselves in a position of giving, to be an embodiment of what we are dedicated to, and to put our life, time, attention and energy into the most important things. Even when Arvis was sitting in her living room alone, she was in service to all the people who might show up in the future. Many years later, I ended up being one of those people." (You can find this reflection shared on my Facebook profile here: https://www.facebook.com/GeorgeKao/posts/10112514950126433) Your Service Matters, Regardless of Numbers Think of your FTA webinar, even if only one person attends live, as an act of service – service to your dedication, service to honing your message, and service to all the people who might benefit from it in the future, whether through the recording or future iterations. Action Step / Reflection: Take a moment to reflect on the above story and the idea of teaching as practice and service. Comment below sharing one thought about how this perspective might help you approach your upcoming FTA webinar, especially concerning your feelings about attendance numbers 🙏🏼


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Bingz Huang 💗 Conversation Booster 🔤 ABC

Thank you, George! I was feeling really bummed about my FTA webinar, even though it was already quite an improvement from my past webinars. I fantasized being eloquent but I really just need more practice and refinement. 

So, here's my upcoming schedule, taking into account of my kids' school holidays for the months of June and December. 

FTA webinar: mid-June, mid-Aug, mid-Oct.

4-week course: July, Sep, Nov.
I'll keep building my mailing list through these webinars! 

Holiday Gift Guide For HSPs 🎁

Hello Wonderful Peeps‼️😊

I haven't posted in a minute because life has been very full. My side gig is definitely not for the faint of heart; lol. 🤣🤣 I hope y'all are well- even considering all of our world's current challenges. 💙🌎💚

Anywho ... I thought I would share my recent blog post with you since many of you are &/or know HSPs. 🌻 I hope to create a similar post annually. Creating these kinds of posts brings me JOY‼️🦋

Please enjoy, & take extra good care of your beautiful selves‼️💖

thesensitivesherpa.com/blog...

With much Love ~

💜 Mary 🐈‍⬛



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Bingz Huang 💗 Conversation Booster 🔤 ABC

A delightful list, Mary! Thanks for sharing! By the way, have you heard of Loop earplugs? They allow you to still hear them with the background noises more muffled.

Feedback about George-led ABC Calls for 2024

This is an ongoing / placeholder post that you can comment on after you attend any of the ABC calls that I lead... 

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I welcome your feedback -- what was particularly good about the call that you just attended... and what might be changed/improved to make it even better? 😊 

Comment below (this encourages others to attend the calls and comment as well).

Or if you need to give anonymous feedback, click here instead 🙏🏼



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Thank you for the helpful spotlight coaching, George! It didn't occur to me that if I want to only invite people I know to work with me, it'll be good to share in more private online spaces. I also learned about cool YouTube tips from witnessing another member's spotlight coaching and walking through the E.A.S.E model. 


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My weird is that I love to dance.. maybe I can bring in some dance movements while I speak! I also tear up very easily when I feel moved by my client's or friend's sharing. I think my silence speaks more than my words. 

RK

@Bingz Huang I would love to see your dance when we meet! Shall we dance together? I want to join in your 'weird'. I have to upfront. My dancing skill is zero ><

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Bingz Huang 💗 Conversation Booster 🔤 ABC

@Roxanne Koh (Therapy Without Boxes) yes! let's dance together at the park! :D

Bingz Huang 💗 Conversation Booster 🔤 ABC

I found my Energy Signature through these photos! And I'd love to know yours!

I was recently gifted a 6-hour long glam photoshoot and they were very open for me to play with silk fan veils in their studio. Here are some of my favourite photos (unedited screenshots so I can't share them publicly) that I feel remind me of my energy signature. 

I feel that photos are so important in capturing our energy signature. Please feel free to share yours in the comments or anything that you feel that describes your energy signature



AM

These are so cool! Thank you so much for sharing @Bingz Huang 😍

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Bingz Huang 💗 Conversation Booster 🔤 ABC

@Aurora Meneghello Oh you're most welcome, Aurora! And thank you :D How would you describe your energy signature?

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Bingz Huang 💗 Conversation Booster 🔤 ABC

@Aurora Meneghello ooh I love your creativity and resourcefulness in creating these images, Aurora! it does capture the feeling from your key words. I love the curves on the seashell :)

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Mary Barringer 🔤 ABC

Ohh my goodness; these photos are gorgeous, @Bingz Huang, as are YOU‼️What a beautiful experience!! Joy-full; you are‼️🤩😍 xoxo 💃

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Bingz Huang 💗 Conversation Booster 🔤 ABC

@Mary Barringer thank you so much, dear Mary! How would you describe your energy signature?

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Bingz Huang 💗 Conversation Booster 🔤 ABC

@Mary Barringer that's a beautiful combo that leads to Mary! Love the equation! :D