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Dorota Godby
@dorotagodby
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You’ll resonate with my work if you tend to process things deeply and if you need support for improving your work rituals or relationships (incl. with clients).

I'm also a decluttering doula which overlaps with the above (the value of realigning for thriving) but this is also a distinct area of sup…


Active 6mo ago Joined 28 May 2022 (GMT+01:00) Dublin
Welcome to Effortless Yes 5:46
Welcome to Effortless Yes! + Our community values (5 - 10)

A warm welcome here! It is so valuable to have a community of wise and grounded soulpreneurs to explore these things together in a focused way. The most important part of a community is its culture. I consider each of us to be culture-setters. We influence the culture with every interaction we have here.  A few values I recommend that we keep in mind: Comment once, reply twice. For each comment that you make, look for 2 other people's comments (especially ones with few comments) and add a reply – with your encouragement and suggestions (if appropriate). This helps to balance the comment/reply ratio, and gives you practice in seeking and giving support in this community. Notice and name each others' energy signatures. Each person's presence is unique, and each person has their strengths. It can be difficult for us to notice our own, and easier to notice others'. Whenever you reply to someone’s comment, try to name something, however small, that you appreciate about their energy signature. We all have a fear of being fully seen. Let’s help each other feel fully accepted and received. Receive deeply what others see/feel from you. It’s a meaningful practice. It’ll help you integrate and express better your energy signature.  Share generously. As you do the homework and add comments under lessons, try to include screenshots or quotes where appropriate, so that we can learn from real examples.  Keep all sharings confidential.  Let's keep this a safe space for sharing by promising to keep all comments confidential. Let me know below if these values are helpful, and if you have any suggestions. The values we embody together here is what makes this course experience amazing for each other 😊


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Dorota Godby 💗 Conversation Booster

VERY helpful values, George, esp nr 2 helping us to get more at home with being seen for our signatures. Funny thing with being seen: you want it (and need it, in business) yet receiving it is another matter altogether, ha ha! <3

Netcaring with fellow course participants 10:10
Netcaring with fellow course participants

These are rich sources of colleagues who are actively growing and meeting many other people. Most course comments don’t get replies. You can be one of the few. What you get to practice in re: netcaring: Deep listening to understand more perspectives and be more able to truly connect. Deep encouragement: say what you specifically appreciate about their energy, words, their efforts. Share your own related vulnerability about the course topic. Connected commenting: aim to be more specific about what they said, and less generic in your response. It’s a practice of being an excellent commenter. Look for ways to connect with them 1-1 for co-working, co-learning. Most course participants don’t reach out 1-1 to offer encouragement, accountability, mutual coaching about the course’s topics. By being one of the engaged commenters – and especially, repliers to comments – you get to know the themes of what the students are most engaged with, and confused about.  Reach out to the instructor in genuine appreciation and support: That you have seen some common themes in your review of student comments, and they are…  That you’d be happy to be a success story for the course.


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Dorota Godby 💗 Conversation Booster

I can attest to the power of engaging with fellow course participants George is highlighting here. My very best allies (to my business and my inner world)  have come from fellow course participants I've reached out to (or cherished meeting where buddies were allocated).

Because I thrive on connections where there is mutual support for a beloved purpose (rather than only socialising). 

With gratitude to my precious allies: the Source, George, this community and the one to one connections. 🎆🎆🎆🎆🎆
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Dipanshu Rawal 🔤 ABC

@Dorota Godby This lesson is definitely inspiring. Looking forward to practice this more and more :) 

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Dorota Godby 💗 Conversation Booster

@Dipanshu Rawal Yey! Enjoy the new allies on this path. ☕️🍵


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Dorota Godby 💗 Conversation Booster

Thank you, dear George for pointing to deeper truth about readiness than popular assumptions. I so love this way of thinking. 🙏🏻

Some people for example might be much better at running groups than one-to-one work anyway so putting one as a pre-requisite for the other might be unfortunate.

I think serving the need that people are hungry for (and that gives you joy to provide for) is far more important.  🦉💞

3 metaphor of soulful hide & seek 5:35
Soulful game of hide & seek 👼🏼✨🌎

Let's play with this imaginary tale...  In a celestial realm known as Heaven, a soul family thrived, aglow with a wisdom and love that felt almost boundless. Each soul was a unique spark in a grand constellation, radiant in the light of collective unity. Despite this wondrous harmony, a subtle yearning began to stir within them—a desire for deeper individual expression and growth. An Elder Soul stood before the gathering, saying, "Though we are in a realm of unity, we yearn for individual experiences to enrich our collective wisdom. Let us incarnate on Earth during a time of a great digital web, where we can send forth our unique energy signatures as a way to remember and recognize one another." In agreement, the soul family embarked upon their journey to Earth, manifesting in physical forms to navigate a world filled with complexities and opportunities. Bound by an eternal promise, they ventured into lives where they could both seek and offer lessons, always on the lookout for their kin. Grounded in teachings of authentic business, they each began to carve out their own unique paths. These souls emitted their energy signatures through heartfelt pieces of content—videos, writings, audios, and art. Each was an imprint of their authentic selves, designed to resonate through the sprawling digital landscape. While Earth's challenges—doubt, time, imperfection—sometimes darkened their steps, the soul family drew strength from their original mission. They saw these difficulties not as obstacles but as the medium through which their energy signatures could become more distinct, more refined. Over time, these soulful pings became more potent, more nuanced. Like cosmic beacons, they began to attract soulmates back into a collective orbit. Each reunion was a moment of celestial alignment, a rekindling of ancient connections, filling the souls with a sense of completeness and purpose. And so, every emitted energy signature and collaborative endeavor wove a new, intricate pattern into the tapestry of their Earthly lives, creating a bridge to their celestial origins. As each soul found its counterparts, the heavenly constellation they had once formed seemed to reclaim its brilliance, glowing with renewed fervor. The mission endures, both on Earth and in Heaven: to develop individual expression while fostering a collective, eternal unity. The energy signatures continue to flow through the digital maze and across the universe, each a note in a cosmic symphony of reconnection and love. –– courtesy of ChatGPT with George's prompting.


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Dorota Godby 💗 Conversation Booster

Ha, ha, George, I'm so clearly in the same soul family as you as I love not only your story/metaphor but also how you tell it! 💓👏🏻🎆


AA

This lesson justified the entire cost of the course in my opinion. Granted I haven't finished the course yet, but I felt the need to say how valuable this was. 

Just hearing you articulate the thought process and justifications for how much time you can spend on each person at each price point was illuminating. 

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Dorota Godby 💗 Conversation Booster

@Aaron Ameen I know what you mean, Aaron! If we can charge enough after this course, we'll have recouped its fee easily and then some, right? 

AA

@Dorota Godby it's also a matter of valuing our time & charging an amount comensurate with how much energy we'll put into each client.

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Dorota Godby 💗 Conversation Booster

I'll need to hear THIS lesson more than once, ha ha!

George has done a great job of spelling out the cost of not charging more.  🙏🏻

Time to review Adam Grant's ("Give and Take") and what it was that helped women overcome their conditioning of NOT asking for more. I seem to remember it took imagining the impact on loved ones ... 

2 learning from interviews 2:16
Your favorite interviews: what are you learning about how they do it?

From now on, as you listen to / watch any interviews, especially from your favorite hosts or guests, ask yourself: What is the host doing well, that I can learn from? What is the guest doing that is effective? What are they not doing as effectively, that I can learn from? I welcome you to share your learnings below. Let's all become more effective hosts & guests, with our collective input!


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Dorota Godby 💗 Conversation Booster

I've listened to a lot of episodes of Next Level Soul podcast (on youtube) and I love:

- the interviewer's warmth (in his manner and towards his guests)
- laughter and humour (from the host and between him and his guests)
- he asks questions that the listeners are likely to have about what is being said, esp those about what it was like for the guest to have the experiences they had had and how they handled that
- the host's interest is clearly in service (to his guest, to their servce and to the world: i.e he conducts his interview from his values and they are visible or openly referred to)
- he has a variety of guests to serve the same topic/values that he stands for; that makes it extra interesting and strengthens the validity of his frame

One thing that I find less enjoyable in the host is that he sometimes mansplains about the guest's topic to them and not exactly briefly ... :-(