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Mary Barringer
@maryagnesbarringer
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I'm so happy to be here - especially after an extended hiatus from working on & in my biz!! 😊

My work with Highly Sensitive People (HSPs) fills my soul with joy!! 🦋 I'm a counselor/mentor - mainly with young women in their 20s (thus far). While I work primarily 1:1, I look forward to creating a sma…


Active 8mo ago Joined 9 Aug 2022 (GMT-08:00) Pacific Time (US & Canada)
ABC so much in the program - how to manage time well? 5:49
⏳ How to manage your time with ABC / MasterHeart

Once the program begins (the first week of January), there will be lots of opportunities to engage and get support: Click here for the list of member-only calls All calls are optional. However, the less you engage, the less you'll benefit from the program...  I recommend this 4-step plan for everyone: Sometime in the beginning of your membership, try out each type of call. Click the link above to see what's available. Which call is most helpful for you? Plan to attend it regularly. Do your best to attend at least one call per month to check-in with the community and with George. Have you put it into your calendar? 😊 Netcaring with other members is a valuable opportunity while you're in the program. Consider scheduling 30-60 minutes once a month (or week!) to practice one skill of netcaring, even if simply to reach out to someone new and say hello, maybe get together for a half-hour virtual tea? See more netcaring tips here. Plan your time so that you can utilize the program well.  Although all calls are optional, try to attend as many as you would enjoy, so you can stay connected to authentic business strategies ✨ If you have other tips for your fellow members about managing time & energy with this program, comment below 🙏🏼😊


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Mary Veerkamp 🔤 ABC

I would love to hear from members who have been participating in MH/ABC already. As a new member, I am a bit overwhelmed with where to focus. I'm getting emails for ABC, Soul Gym, Joyful Productivity, Authentic Content Creation plus George's regular updates. I already feel "behind" (even knowing that there isn't any external standard or deadline to meet) and I am sure that is not the intent. Suggestions welcome. 

Thank you!

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Captain Orjiugo Ⓜ️ MasterHeart

I hear you @Mary Veerkamp, and thanks for sharing. I'm going to copy and paste something important @George Kao wrote in the ABC Values section:

"You can never “fall behind” because everyone moves at their own pace, and chooses how to participate at their own rhythm. If you’ve been absent from calls or the group for awhile, you are welcome to jump in again anytime! No worries at all."

1). As someone who engages with almost everything George puts out there, my best recommendation is to go one step at a time and take only what you need in each moment.

2). To do this, start from understanding & setting your own  personal and business priorities for the year (what exactly do you wish to get from the groups?) and then engaging in such a way that serves those priorities -- letting go of everything else for now.

3). This also means that if you are getting too many email notifications from areas you're currently not focused on, you can turn them off temporarily until you are ready to re-engage. That way you're only notified about things you have energy to take care of.

4). In the end, remember that what George serves us is like a buffet: You get to pick and choose... and only you can decide how much you put in your plate.

I hope this helps... and feel free to ask any follow up questions.

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Mary Barringer 🔤 ABC

@Captain Orjiugo Thank you!! Very helpful!! 🥰 @Mary Veerkamp Thank you for your post!! I'm feeling the same way - ie., overwhelmed!! Since I work A LOT @ my restaurant gig + am not too familiar w/ the Simplero platform + am an HSP, I get it‼️🙃😳 I appreciate Captain O's input. I plan to take things step by step & keep REALLY good notes the old fashioned way - w/ my notebook + pens/pencils + colorful highlighters‼️📓✏🖊 I'm able to process only a limited amount of info @ a time, & it's crucial that I honor my unique way of processing & learning. ♥️ We've got this‼️🥳

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Mary Veerkamp 🔤 ABC

@Mary Barringer I love this, Mary! You might not find it surprising that earlier this week I took a trip to the office supply store and bought a new notebook and some vibrantly colored fine point marker pens :)

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Mary Veerkamp 🔤 ABC

@Captain Orjiugo I appreciate the thoughtfulness and thoroughness of your response here. Of course, the challenge is that learning is one of my FAVORITE things and I want to engage with everything RIGHT NOW. And, that is only going to serve overwhelming me and likely creating burnout.

I copied the spreadsheet that @Heather Tobin created for George's courses and sat down with it to get some clarity on where my priorities ought to be focused right now and what I am interested in and want to hold off on in service to the closer term priorities. 

Next: to acknowledge the FOMO (fear of missing out) and turn off notifications for some of George's emails. 

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Mary Barringer 🔤 ABC

@Mary Veerkamp lol. My favorite kind of store‼️😂😊♥️📓✏🖌🖋📎✂️🎨

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Mary Barringer 🔤 ABC

@Mary Veerkamp 💯‼️😊♥️📓✏🖌🐈‍⬛

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Heather Tobin 💗 Conversation Booster 🔤 ABC

@Mary Veerkamp and @Mary Barringer Everything Captain said ... 💯

I've also been in George's world for a while, and consumed all-the-things... I have a big full brain now. 🤣... and I learned that I needed to slow down, pace myself, and not emulate George entirely

I had to take what most aligned, and add my own wisdom and voila = personal magic. 

and...  other things that have helped me..

- really deciding week to week how much time I had available, and for what - meaning I would reverse plan my calendar, plugging in everything that I knew was set in stone, including... sleep... meals.. errands.. existing appts etc.  some weeks I had 5 hours, some weeks I had 20.. and so on. 

- knowing that everything is adjustable and temporary -- what works for a few weeks, might not work "forever"

- recognizing that I actually didn't have to watch every single video (and I'm a recovering "perfectionist type A personality") so that wasn't easy...  but going through the buffet concept.. a bite here.. a bite there.. was very helpful especially if I was looking for something specific that I needed to work on.


I trust that you are always right on time, exactly where you need to be, and whatever is meant for you won't pass you by. 🪶

and..

George can help with personal to you guidance on any Q&A call in the new year as well.  :)

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Mary Barringer 🔤 ABC

@Heather Tobin Thank you so much‼️ I greatly appreciate that you freely share your experiences, wisdom & insights!! While I'm not a FOMO person & most definitely am not Type A, I'm extremely conscientious & LOVE learning!! I have no problem w/ turning off notifications so as to minimize feelings of overwhelm. I love the buffet analogy. Thank you again, Heather‼️🌻🦋

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Mary Veerkamp 🔤 ABC

@Heather Tobin Thank you so much for this really helpful download of what you've found to be helpful. Immediately I felt resonance in the "buffet concept" and not rigidly holding myself to needed to watch EVERY. SINGLE. VIDEO. in order ;) Thank you for that!

Intentional reverse planning of the calendar sounds like an interesting experiment, too. I think I've sort of been doing this -- but want to play with it more :)


(full disclosure: I have printed off your response, taped it to the inside of my notebook, and highlighted the things I want to practice and build awareness around as I figure out my own rhythm and engagement here)

2024 ABC + MasterHeart
✍🏽 What is your joyful productivity structure for 2024 of working your business?

To have a financially sustainable business will require you to have a sustainable time/energy management structure for you to work on your business. I'll call that your "joyful productivity structure". What does that look like for you? Comment below and share with us anything you'd like to share about your structure. Resource to help you create -- and keep integrity with -- your joyful pro structure: The 111 Formula -- Go to the BizPlan course and scroll down to the 111 Formula Module. The Weekly Plan -- Go to Joyful Pro course and scroll down to the module "Weekly Planning". The Q&A calls with me -- they start in January -- come to any Q&A call and ask for help to clarify your structure. Your monthly call with your Accountability Buddy (starting in January) is where you can revisit your structure, what you're learning about it (and about yourself), and recommit to the integrity of the structure. Besides adding your comment below, also look at some of the latest comments -- what do you appreciate about what they wrote? What can you learn from it? (If you don't see any comments below, it means you're currently logged out, or don't have access to this course.)


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Mary Barringer 🔤 ABC

@Kat Fitzpatrick I LOVE this - so much so that I checked out your profile & website‼️😊 Oh my!! I'm 💯 intrigued by/with your story!! I, too, have been keenly interested in the Vietnam War (that period in history) since ... forever. Stanley Karnow's book took my breath away. I was born in 1959 - a child of the 60s & 70s. 🌼✌☮ In high school, I was very close w/ 2 Vietnamese sisters who were refugees. There is much more I could say, but for now, I'm very grateful you are here!! 🙌 ♥️🙏 And - I also chose the solo/single path for myself (many moons ago). It's a very good fit for me. 🌟

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Kat Fitzpatrick 🔤 ABC

@Mary Barringer Hi Mary, thanks so much for your message/comment. ✨ I love Karnow's book--have you read Frances Fitzgerald's Fire in the Lake? Similar in many ways and it's nice to hear from a woman journalist. (I feel like I want to reread both now!) Thank you for the warm welcome and looking forward to connecting on this topic more! ❦

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Mary Barringer 🔤 ABC

@Kat Fitzpatrick I have not read Frances Fitzgerald's book. (Love her name!!) ♥️ Thank you for telling me about her!! Yes; I would very much appreciate hearing about The Vietnam War (+ the foreign policy issues therein) from a woman journalist's POV. I read Karnow's book years ago & was deeply moved by it. (I've been involved in the peace movement & social justice causes since I was a teenager.) ✌☮

So happy to meet you, Kat‼️🥰

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Kat Fitzpatrick 🔤 ABC

@Mary Barringer I am contemplating how to facilitate "Vietnam Chats" as part my outreach/business/joyful productivity. Your interest and knowledge adds to my intention to do so. Looking forward to how all this can unfold. <3