It's interesting to notice how often we decide to engage in a relationship with the other person's potential, but not really with them.

With who we think they should be, not really them.

With the person we think they should become in order for us to have the perfect relationship, but not really who they choose to be.

Very often I work with people who are very very disappointed in their relationships, but stay in the hope that the other person will change. 

Because they think that would be the best

That love conquers all and their love will change the other person

Or they take words and promises as more important than reality and actions.

In this video I talk about this phenomenon and how to see relationships with more clarity:

https://youtu.be/J5JIGYJ28g...

Today I have been working on scheduling videos on my youtube channel.

I found it interesting that going into my files and looking for videos felt a lot different than 2 weeks ago.

Two weeks ago I was intending to do the same thing, went into my files, looked at my pre-recorded videos and I thought to myself:

"I don't like any of these. I can't upload them, they are embarrassing!"

I was disappointed in myself, and wanted to just delete all of them. I was thinking I need to redo them and that this would take a lot of work.

The result was that (fortunately I didn't delete them) I didn't schedule any for my channel for 1-2 weeks. Not a big deal of course, although I have been having a steady flow of videos for the last few months which felt really good.

And today, I tried again. I went back into my folder and watched the same videos and I liked them! The felt fine and ready to post!

Interesting understanding that depending on my mood, sometimes my perfectionist self will take over and get the best of me. And I just needed to try again.

Of course, my intention is to always get better at creating videos. Yet, staying stagnant because I just find flaws in everything is not the way to go.

This was an interesting understanding as I thought I'm more gentle with myself and more compassionate. Yet, not being there sometimes is also ok.

Next time, I will always remember to give myself a second chance!

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