I have very gradually built my business over the past few years, but in these past few weeks, WOW, I have followed thru with some of those previously too scary things that my business has needed and wanted.👏🏼😃 It has been slow over the long haul, but I want my business for the long-term. Last year I finally got some ideal clients again, and it was a JOY! I rode on the wave of that and the relative financial security of a (stressful) part time job. 

However, God/the Divine/Spirit/whatever you might call it -- gave me two clear signs that I needed to find a way to take the next (for me) scary steps, like becoming more visible and being willing to be even more myself in my business. To be authentic in more visible places and ways. One sign was that some of my individual clients finished coaching with me and weren't replaced by other clients who meet regularly. So my business income dropped.

The other sign was clearly needing to leave the stressful part-time job I had persisted with keeping (9 months) and had been so committed to because of the income. It had taken me a long time to find it, and I kept making the adjustments and changes needed, and I had the support of my boss (or so I thought...) 

After a horrible meeting with him in which I was dragged through the coals and criticized for a list of things, (including staying late to try to get work done because my co-worker was gone for weeks...), I decided, "Fuck this job. I am no longer willing or able to put up with this stress and these unrealistic expectations." Also, zero appreciation for showing up every dang day and constantly learning and getting better at the job. I managed to write a civil letter of resignation, and the next day was my last day. (I had nothing to lose by leaving quickly because clearly, there would not be any letter of recommendation from him, and I wanted to be as far away as I could from this place of employment! Plus, I refused to be treated like that anymore.  

This was a huge sign of progress for me -- to choose my mental, emotional, and physical health OVER this ungodly stressful part-time job in which I was unappreciated. I was relieved to no longer have all of the stress associated with that job, and freaked out by the significant decrease in income. 

But I did NOT want to look for another part-time job, dammit! I wanted to take all of the courage and all I had been learning about myself into reinvesting in my business. My job had been so stressful that I found myself unable to do much business development. 

This week, I have two market research calls, which is my first time to ever do market research. Today I had a call with a local therapist about being interviewed on her podcast. (We have a date for August because she already has interviews scheduled every week through July!) I have never been on a podcast -- because it has felt way too scary...

I also have three more nectaring calls this week, one from a friendship I developed on LinkedIn because of commenting on other creators' posts, and the other two are wonderful people I have met in this amazing group. ❤️

I also joined an ADHD support group (because I need that support). I sent a private message to the creator of that group explaining that I am also an ADHD coach, but I will be very respectful about not advertising or messaging her group about being a coach and told her more about me. She surprisingly replied that she is beginning to refer people and would love to refer to me!!! 😃🙏🏼

I only have one client scheduled this week, BUT I feel confident that this will increase again. 

For me, this week is a BFD (big fucking deal)! This has been the most I have been visible in my business since around 15 years ago, when I was meeting with several clients in person and was doing some workshops and was even interviewed for an article about ADHD women in a local magazine. 

Lots of massive changes have occurred in my life since then, and I have needed to redesign my life and the way I approach life. Or maybe return to the essence of the joy and connection I had when my business was reasonably successful so many years ago!

I am hopeful, excited, grateful, and still feel scared, but with so much less fear! Something has shifted, and I have been able to take the scary actions that used to paralyze me.🙏🏼💗