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Steph Pfennig

I am a recovering corporate junkie, having lived my life in a very left-brained manner until I lost my daughter in 2016 and step son in 2019.  I started 'searching'  and have found hope, love and even joy again, many thanks to the work of Suzanne Giesemann and other spiritual teachers like her.  I n…


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Etiquette for sending private messages: text, audio, or video?

Whether privately messaging someone via email, social media DM, or mobile text, which is better... writing, audio, or video? Here's my personal rule: 1. Writing is most respectful because it's the quickest for the other person to read. 2. The more of a relationship I have with someone, the more they'll likely be patient enough to listen to my audio / watch my video message to them... yet, if it's something I'm asking for / requesting, it's still more respectful to write if possible.  3. If recording audio/video, try to keep it under 1 minute 😅 and more about sharing emotion... not information, which can be shared via writing. 4. Except if I'm volunteering help to someone / doing them a favor, then audio/video longer is fine, but aim for no more than 3 minutes unless it's really super helpful to go longer 😄 5. Another exception -- if I'm responding to a client/student on a Q&A call and it's a video that will be watched by others, then of course, going longer (as you know I do!) than 3 minutes is normal 😂 What are your feelings when receiving a private message from someone you don't know super well?  Do you prefer writing, audio, or video?  Comment and let's discuss below.  You're allowed to disagree with me 😊 (If you cannot see -- or write -- comments below, it means you're not logged in.)


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What I love about this is that we (especially women) were taught in the corporate world not to show emotion...back when I was cutting my teeth in corporate in early 90s.  Ridiculous!  Love how George teaches to put emotion into your messages - shows your intention.   

@Clare Downham - I am also decreasingly a fan of rules.   I tend to like written before I actually meet someone, but if someone wants to communicate via audio or video, go for it!